The idea of failure is dreadful.
Nobody wants to experience it, and yet, we all do. Life is not hard. It is also not easy. What we can say is that it can get complicated at times, depending on how one looks at it.
Regardless of what we do, failure may happen at some point. The only thing we can do is accept it, learn from it and move on from it.
Once or twice in a lifetime, we will go through something we would rather not. It is because there are lessons to be learned, albeit the hard way. These are four of those lessons:
Everyone goes through disappointments, something we cannot help. It has something to do with emotions and expectations. People and situations may disappoint us. It is in our nature. It is hard when it happens, we know. What you need to remember is that it is better not to expect something. Let things be instead. The lesson here is not to expect and let things unfold as they should.
This is something inevitable. It hurts a lot when we lose someone for whatever reason. There is emptiness and rejection that is hard to fathom. Sometimes, we think that nothing will ever be the same again. Maybe this is true, and perhaps it is for the better. This happens because we need to learn to make the most out of each moment with the people we love and care about because everything can change in an instant. Show your love and let them know you care about them. Time is of the essence.
Yet another one that is needed to happen. We cannot always get what we want, and we don’t always reach the places we want to be. We get rejected and denied, or something or someone is on the way. This is not because you are not worthy, it is because you deserve something better. Be patient and do not dwell on the things you cannot do anything about. Something better is coming for you. Don’t forget; you will always get what you deserve.
As mentioned earlier, it is human nature to betray or to be betrayed. It will be painful and hard to get over with but you will. This will remind you to choose your friends and the company you keep well. If someone does betray you, bear in mind that someone else’s flaws do not define you. You are who you are because of your choices and the actions you make, not because somebody made the decisions for you.
Lessons are meant to be learned and experienced in different ways. Whatever you are going through right not, it will not last longer than you would. Be strong and believe that things will get better.