Nothing beats the best version of you.
In a world where people expect you to be someone else than who you should be, it is a huge challenge but something we can face head on, without a doubt.
Discovering oneself is a journey that will lead to a lot of things and becoming who you really are is one of the achievements you could have in this lifetime.
To be your best self, we suggest you do the following:
Accept everything about you
You have good attributes, and you have flaws. The combination of both makes you who you are. Instead of hating your flaws, accept them as part of you. If you can do something to make them better and to strengthen yourself, go for it. Remember, before you are loved by anyone else, you have to love yourself first and accept everything about you regardless of what other people think or say.
Dare to try new things
Life gets more exciting when new things are on the horizon. There are things you may be afraid to try but you should try them anyway. It is one of the best things to do to appreciate yourself more and discover what you can do, as well your potential. This is also one way of achieving your dreams and goals in life. Taking risks and getting out of your comfort zone is a good place to start as any. Don’t be afraid to fail because only in failure you can learn great lessons, hard as they may be.
Take no for an answer
Yes, indeed, not even from yourself. There will be times when you will be rejected, and that is okay. It happens to everybody. The important thing is to never give up the fight and to keep going. Sometimes, a no is better because that is how you will learn that there are many ways to achieve something and just because you were rejected the first or the second time does not mean you don’t deserve what you are aiming for. Everything that is worth having in this lifetime takes time, and when you are patient enough, you will get what you deserve, and more.
Remember, the ones who love you will accept you for who you are without judgment. The more you love yourself and fight to be what you ought to be, the more you will be loved by others. Don’t settle for anything you aren’t, not ever and not in this lifetime or the next.