The prospect of change is scary.
You never know what will happen on the next bend nor would you have an idea of how things will turn out tomorrow. These are scary prospects and could be the same reason why people do not want to change nor deal with it.
We can’t blame them. It is never easy to change or to deal with. Sometimes, it means uprooting yourself and starting over and sometimes; it is leaving a comfort zone. It is one of the biggest challenges one could face, especially the ones who hate change or even just the idea of it.
That is the challenge, isn’t it? For the better, embrace change. Dare yourself. Brave the unknown. Take everything as they come even when you don’t know what the result would be. It may be painful at first, and uncomfortable, as with a new environment or being with people you just met. It is okay. It is part of growth and bear in mind that it is for the better.
So many things can happen in a day. You can change. You can find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with; you will land on your dream job, you will achieve your dreams. The possibilities are endless. Change, even when it is scary. Embrace the new environment, even when you fear what could or could not happen.
Things may or may not turn out the way you want them to. You will either succeed on the risk you have taken, or you will learn a valuable lesson. It is not a loss, it is a learning experience, which, in itself, is a good thing regardless of what you had gone through before it happened.
You can change when you want to or take it for what it is and adjust when it happens. Either way, the more open you become to things that are beyond your control, the easier it is to deal with them.