You forget yourself.
Most of the time. All of us do.
However, let us remember that when we take care of ourselves, we become happier, healthier and overall, better human beings.
When we take care of ourselves, we are only doing exactly what we deserve, and it is something we should never feel guilty about.
These are the things we suggest you do to treat and take care of yourself a whole lot better:
Learn to forgive yourself.
We all make mistakes, whether we admit it or not. Do not be too hard on yourself. Know that you did your best and could not have done anything more to change the outcome. What you did was more than enough. Forgive yourself, and learn your lesson. Sometimes, no matter what we do, things do not always turn out the way we want them to be, and that is alright. Lessons learned, right? Move on and try again.
Believe in what you can do.
You know what? You can do so much more than you think you can do or believe. The only missing thing is that you believe it first. When you start recognizing your potential and your ability to make things happen, things will fall into place. Granted, you don’t know everything, but that is the beauty of it. There is learning in discovery.
Stop wanting to be perfect.
Nobody is, and nobody will ever be. Don’t mind what others think, do and expect of you. Always do your very best, that’s it. You will make mistakes along the way, and when you push yourself to perfection, you will commit more mistakes, and that is something you don’t want to happen, do you?
There are many ways to treat yourself better without feeling guilty. When you do feel guilty about something you have done for yourself, know that you deserve it and in fact, you should do it more often.